Irritable Male Syndrome (IMS) #MalePMS

Hi there, Nachos!! ✌🏽❤️

Let’s start by making this clear. I’m not making any comparisons to what women go through. During that time of the month. Being brought up around a bunch of ladies. As well as, in my circle. I know better.
Although, women jokingly say this about men.. “I think he’s on his period today.” Yes! Dudes get a little bitchy at times. Joan Crawford even quoted “I love playing bitches. There’s a lot of bitch in every woman. A lot in every man.” I love her!!! I use to compare moods with astrology signs. But if everyone is acting up at the same time. What then? Not everyone is a Pisces. I’m one and I can be super sensitive at times. According to some, I’ll even give a Broadway performance. #Shade 
 
Crazy part, though…. It’s so true. 😲🤦🏽‍♂️
I’m not saying that about all Pisces either. However, it’s a proven fact. That we are the most sensitive in the zodiac. As well as, the most creative. 
I’ve been called out lately for being grumpy, unruly, winey, moody, flip-floppy. Then there’s a time when I turn into “Charley 2.0”. I’m dancing, extremely happy all that good stuff. I’ve been told I’m on my period. Men do not suffer the agony of what women go through. Do we get the side effects? Regarding attitude? Maybe??? 
I had some time on social media. I was scrolling and seen a clip from “The Doctors”. They were talking about “IMS” Irritable Male Syndrome. Male PMS, as they stated. I have seen a lot of Men.. Straight and Gay switch it up. As if it were a females monthly time. I do hear men claim of “Cramps and Cravings of this and that.” Dude!! It’s just gas and you probably have the munchies. Or, you’re just plain hungry.
 
Ladies, give dude a good movie slap for that!! 😂
As they were saying, the male testosterone level. Is rather high when he wakes up. Mines is really high!! 🤦🏽‍♂️😂  Anyway, we have all this energy. Plus along with exercise and a good diet. You’re pretty energetic and pumped. Whereas, a male that doesn’t exercise, eats poorly.  Will probably just have that level upon awakening. Then it’s probably hell for the rest of the day. I don’t exercise too much. That’s changing.. Due to my music career. I eat what and when I want. No meat, though. As well as, a stoner. I’ll wake up in the morning. Say after a show. Now, I’m pumped about the performance. The feedback is always good. I’ll have a few drinks, smoke then eat like crazy. The next day, I’ll get up pumped. Shower, dress have coffee. Then I’m good. Nope!!!
I’ll turn into the most evil person. I’m totally harmless, I don’t look good behind bars. However. I’ll complain, snap at someone. I become a total crybaby. I’m working on this. Work in progress, y’all! “Me being defensive, will never change. Some people are just too offensive!” Today I was cranky, I probably got about 3 hours sleep. I’m a huge coffee drinker. Shit was no help. 😢 Around noontime I wanted to go in a corner and cry. It was because it’s Monday and I’m sleepy as hell!! Plus, I was starving. 
 
Other times, I can be giddy and exploding with joviality. I’ll be super chatty and animated. Most people think I probably downed a few uppers. Nope! That’s actually a normal Charley.
 
Ain’t I handsome?!?! Yes!! 😘
They way we take care of our bodies. Reflects our moods day to day. Is it PMS… I doubt it!! Now ladies… I can’t imagine what you all go through. During that time of the month. However, I will say “I’m sorry… If I ever pissed you off!” Although, some of y’all.. I did on purpose. I’ll treat you to some chocolate and Motrin. 
I’m going to say that it’s just an excuse for us guys. To use when we’re moody. We just needed something to call it!!! I AM DEFINITELY USING IT!! I actually have IMS today. 
Until then… Be good to each other. Tell someone you love them. 
Peace Nachos!!! ✌🏽❤

The way we look…

So nachos.. 

Quick reminder!! I will be performing with ToniSteelz and friends at The Well. It’s in Brooklyn. In the Bushwick section. Thursday 5/11 🤗
So, last night. I was having a conversation with a few individuals. About the way fellas are dressing these days. I sport a Mohawk hairstyle. Which at times it’s complicated. 🤦🏽‍♂️ Thankfully, it’s at length where I can quickly snap in a few pieces and jet. Yes! I’m a male that enjoys a good hair extension. Once in a while. 🙋🏽‍♂️
 
See…. 
Which lead to this blogpost. I was told that men shouldn’t wear their hair long, permed, weaved etc… I’m like.. 🙄 “Who gives anyone the right to say, how someone should look?” 🤔  Especially, when the so called critics look like Dr. Seuss 😲. And… That’s on their good day. It’s been done for years. Like our favorite Motown singers have done it.
 

 

Nat King Cole hair was on fleek back then, as well.
 
Listen.. The way we choose to look. Is the way we express ourselves. 🕺🏽Not every look is for everyone but it’s for us. A lot of gentlemen wear their pants hanging off their buttocks. It may not work for you. However, it’s the look they chose. They didn’t do it for you. They did it for them. Let’s just hope their drawers are clean. 🤔😂
 
I know a few that dress like this. However, most are actually in suits. During the day. 
To the older generation… I’m sorry. It’s here for a while. 😂
The Met Gala was a few days ago. I saw a photo of singer, Maxwell. Sporting a DSqared2 ensemble. Instantly I was mesmerized.. I want to wear something similar. That looks great on him. It’s fun it looks very comfortable. It’s today!!!!!!!! Slayed!!! 🙌🏽🕺🏽
 

 

I’m sure a few people will disagree with me. However, it’s my opinion. It’s understood it’s not for everyone.
Getting back to hair!!! I love the way us gentleman are keeping our hair these days. Some go for the unkempt and untidy look. To long flowing colorful locks. I hear a lot of, “Dudes, walking around with curls. Looking like girls.” I mean really. Step out the box and get with it. Not everyone looks good with a cesar or buzz cut. If a dude does curl his hair and shit. It doesn’t necessarily mean he’s gay. It’s just how he likes to wear his hair. As well as men with ponytails. There’s nothing wrong with it. It’s all about expression and creativity. We have to stop being so critical and narrow minded. Stop labeling people too!! 🙄🤦🏽‍♂️ Here are some looks that I think are rather dope!!!
 

    

See…. 
 

   

These are dope… You just have to choose the look that’s best for you. If you choose not to have hair. It’s your choice. Who cares?
There’s a lot of awesome looks. That I’ve seen for the spring and summer. My bestie Nico actually has great fashion sense. I’ll feature him soon. Here’s some good looks that you may like.
 

      

 
There’s something for everyone!!! You have to have fun with your appearance. Step out the box and live!!! Well…. Until then, Nachos… Remember that you are amazing and don’t let anyone tell you different!!! ✌🏽❤💕🕺🏽
 
Just me at work.. Sporting short hair. 😍